I knew better. I was aware that
there was a risk involved. I thought I could be careful and avoid any negative
consequences. I was wrong.
No, I am not confessing to some
great moral failure. However, I did use poor judgment and had to deal with the
result when it came to a recent situation I faced. It involved a temporary
crown that the dentist had placed on one of my teeth while I waited to receive
the more permanent version of that device. Meanwhile I knew I needed to be
careful about what I ate. There were certain hard or sticky foods that were to
be avoided. However, when someone gave me a jar of mixed chocolate, peanut
butter candies, and cashews for my birthday, I found it hard to resist. I
reasoned that I wouldn’t eat much – just a bite or two. Additionally, I could
chew the cashews on the opposite side of my mouth from where the crown was
located and be all right. I wasn’t. The crown became dislodged, and I ended up
spending part of my birthday back at the dentist’s office.
We tend to act similarly when it
comes to the more serious temptations we face in life – the ones that don’t
just inconvenience us, but those that carry spiritual implications and that can
affect our relationship with the Lord. In many cases, we recognize the
temptation for what it is. We know better than to go that direction. We are
aware that it could put us at risk of falling out of God’s favor. However, we
don’t run from it as scripture encourages us to do. Paul told Timothy to “flee
youthful lusts” (II Timothy 2:22). He encouraged other believers to “flee
sexual immorality” (I Corinthians 6:18) and to “flee from idolatry” (I
Corinthians 10:14). No matter what the temptation may be, we are opening a door
to let it in when we don’t immediately turn away from it and run the other way.
Rather than flee, we sometimes try
to reason with ourselves about why it might be acceptable to do this under our
circumstances. Or we might deceive ourselves with the idea that we will just
take a taste and not indulge any further in that activity. Or we might tell
ourselves that we will be careful so as not to cross the line into anything
that would be wrong or immoral. Or we sometimes assure ourselves that we are
smart enough or strong enough to avoid any of the possible repercussions of
participating in that behavior. Granted, sometimes we might be able to walk
along that edge without falling off into something sinful or immoral. God might
show us mercy and protect us from the actions resulting from our poor decisions.
However, it is best not to even put ourselves in that position. It is better to
resist the temptation, to go the other direction, and not even put ourselves at
risk of taking a spiritual tumble.
Let’s not forget that temptations
can be resisted – not in our own strength but with God’s help. “No temptation
has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who
will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the
temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it”
(I Corinthians 10:13). Let’s not look for a way to indulge in that activity,
rather let’s look for the way to escape. Run away from temptation, and instead
run toward the God who can give you the guidance and strength you need to do
what is right.